This digital collage and the following statement are on exhibit right now at Idaho State University, in a show called Mama Said: Art and Artifacts of Wise Women.
“She’s a Nice Girl”
These were the words my mother said to me, twenty minutes or more after I had finally gotten up the courage to tell her that I was dating a woman.
In those long twenty minutes, there were silences, interspersed with a bit of light conversation on other topics, to the point where I wondered if she had heard me.
Finally, she quietly said, “She’s a nice girl”. It wasn’t an easy thing for her to say. And it didn’t mean everything was immediately all right. But, unlike some mothers who disown their gay kids, mine was going to stand behind me.